You provide, you protect, you try to show up as the good man you are. But somehow, it’s never enough. You feel invisible, unwanted, or even blamed. It’s exhausting—and confusing. You don’t need to be fixed. You need a framework that shows you how to lead with strength, clarity, and purpose.
It doesn’t have to stay this way.
"The biggest difference with Chuck is that his approach actually works—for me and my wife! Other therapists told me she needed to do the work, and while that’s true, Chuck helped me realize that she also needed the space and safety to do it. His focus on leadership and helping me take ownership of what I could control made all the difference.
She’s always happy when I meet with Chuck—unlike with other coaches I’ve seen in the past, where things often got worse. That’s a rare gift. These situations are incredibly difficult, especially for men like me who grew up without a solid examples of how to handle conflict or build a healthy relationship. "
I know what it’s like to feel stuck in a marriage that looks fine on the outside but feels empty on the inside. That’s why I’ve spent the last two decades helping men rebuild trust, reignite desire, and reclaim their role as confident leaders in their relationships.
Licensed Therapist (LPC) with over 20,000 clinical hours working directly with men and couples
Creator of the Confident Husband Solution, a proven framework for restoring connection, respect, and intimacy
Published author of books on masculinity, marriage, and identity, including The Path: 16 Virtues of Integrity and No More Mr. Nice Guy: The 30-Day Recovery Journal
30+ years of personal experience in marriage—through the struggles, breakdowns, and healing
Trusted advisor to high-achieving men—including CEOs, entrepreneurs, and professionals
Conference speaker and group leader, including work alongside Dr. Robert Glover and the Integration Nation
Host of The Nice Guy Show, a podcast helping men step into strength, purpose, and integrity
You don’t need another self-help gimmick.
You need a way to show up differently—grounded, clear, and fully present. That’s what I help you build: the mindset and the skills to lead with confidence and create the kind of connection that lasts.
I know what it’s like to feel stuck in a marriage that looks fine on the outside but feels empty on the inside. That’s why I’ve spent the last two decades helping men rebuild trust, reignite desire, and reclaim their role as confident leaders in their relationships.
Licensed Therapist (LPC) with over 20,000 clinical hours working directly with men and couples
Creator of the Confident Husband Solution, a proven framework for restoring connection, respect, and intimacy
Published author of books on masculinity, marriage, and identity, including The Path: 16 Virtues of Integrity and No More Mr. Nice Guy: The 30-Day Recovery Journal
30+ years of personal experience in marriage—through the struggles, breakdowns, and healing
Trusted advisor to high-achieving men—including CEOs, entrepreneurs, and professionals
Conference speaker and group leader, including work alongside Dr. Robert Glover and the Integration Nation
Host of The Nice Guy Show, a podcast helping men step into strength, purpose, and integrity
I’m not here to offer quick fixes or gimmicks. I’m here to give you the skills and the mindset to lead with clarity, create real connection, and feel proud of the man you are at home.